(The following records based on transcripts, due to damage to the front part of the recording, there is no accurate description of the place, students wishing to participate in the day corrected)
First, thank you for participating in today's workshop, I would like to invite everyone to an open mind to lectures, many people may have a lot of spiritual knowledge and concepts, I say you may not know, I hope you do not put I have spoken with do you know when you compare the word when talked about spirituality, some people will think of religion, the impact of self-development and so on, I want to emphasize that there is no relationship between spirituality and religion. Spirituality is a multidimensional phenomenon, we have tried to use a two-dimensional language to explain it, we know the limitations of the language it? For example, you eat an apple, and eat a banana, I will let you taste the exact description of the difference between the two, you can do it? (Some answers can not). Imagine even apples, bananas taste so simple a thing we are difficult to describe, let alone spirituality of it? Aware of the limitations of the language, so I hope we can keep the word Spiritual spiritual point of view an open mind, spiri a spiritual meaning, another layer of meaning refers to the subtle energy, this energy exists within us, so that the individual existence is possible, it is a non-material, non-material and energy that created our body so I'm in the end is what? Is the subtle energy, or the body? While in my presence, in addition to the subtle energy, but also by the social and environmental constraints created EGO self, the EGO that my social status, identity, and so when I say I is also produced You concept, with you , I difference, what kind of language that makes you , I has become one of humanity become one too? (Omitted here various participants answer) I use a simple word to answer this question, namely SELF, everyone is a SELF, SELF is connected to the entire human race in which we always use their relationship to define themselves If I say I am a father, I'm going to define myself from my son angle; husband if I said I was, I was from my wife's point of view to define themselves ...... in fact I was talking about me in the eyes of others What kind of person. So who am I in the end is it?
All my identity surface things are given social environment, then what is the real me? Have you felt the need left all social identity, to find that really me? Why do we want to go, I mean? We feel happy? (Some answers are not happy), when we say happy, referring to the two physical and psychological unhappiness, we did not want to be happy, we also found that happiness is very short, we want permanent happiness, not limited any conditions of a new born child is no pain, a little bit of growing up as a child, reading, adult, leave the community, the pain increased a little bit, which means the pain is generated in the future. At birth has is a SELF, then the SELF overshadowed by the constraints of the social environment. Starting from this relatively obscure, such as parents say my kids are the best, which means the child compared with other children; school when parents told us stronger than others, which means I have to compare with all her classmates. When I compare with others when, in fact, I am not trying to be that person. Compare the habit is formed by an hour later, I have been compared in the mirror when I want with that star as beautiful, when I want to buy clothes and movie actress wearing the same clothes, so why should I do? I do this because I want to prove to the world more beautiful than the others. This is a very strong EGO. When I got married, I want to have my wife, I'm faithful to her life, why? This is a very strong to have her EGO. Likewise wife want to have a husband, when my husband praised the movie actress, I would quarrel with her husband, the actress did not even appear in our real life, why? Because when a strong EGO and possessive feel threatened, I'll make this response. I do not want to be a part of humanity, but I think the whole human race to become a part of me. These are very possessive of EGO and when we talk about self, it will involve possessive. I started a new company, I put a bigger company, and I said this is my company; the company's employees said it was his company; cleaning cleaners said it was her company; her husband even cleaners said it was his wife's company; in the end who is the company? Company belongs to everyone, but I forgot this, this belongs to my feeling is an illusion. Possessive is also reflected in all aspects of life, such as a variety of relationships, possessive actually miserable example, a child likes to eat chocolate, he ate the first piece, but also want to eat the second block. Parents do not want to give their children chocolate, based on: first, I heard that eating chocolate is bad for health; secondly, to spend money to buy chocolates; Third, what if the child needs to give anything, the child will be spoiled. So the parents of the child said: eat chocolate is not good, your teeth will be broken, dirty chocolate and so on. Thus, they gave the children a wrong reasons when the kids see other kids eating chocolate, so he said to them: Eat chocolate teeth will be broken, and so the other kids would laugh at him. So the child is produced angry because his parents lied to him. Children home to their parents complained that other kids eat chocolate, so parents would scold a child, the child will generate hatred of anger, while his other children eating chocolate jealous ......
From the above we can see how this simple example of a lie because the parents leads to anger, hatred, jealousy, and so thought. If the parents can honestly tell kids, this will avoid many problems. When planted these seeds, as she grew older, once we encounter something goes wrong, these seeds will be re-emerge, to grow. I have this worry, social and environmental constraints of many pain ...... I breed
We see from the examples above, anger, fear, hatred, jealousy and other ideas, are forced to me, not my inherent, so I kept it, or throw it away?
These four ideas are EGO's habitat, I am angry because I think I told you wrong, this is the EGO; him my little big, I like this, not like that, and so are the EGO; I am jealous because your car than my car is good, but also have a good car, which is four kinds of thoughts and EGO EGO ...... breed and nurture each other, if we can resolve the four kinds of thinking, then EGO ceased to exist, the only remaining SELF feeling, agree? These are not you willing to throw away their own garbage collection? Because they make me unhappy, unhappy originated in these four ideas, how to throw away these four ideas?
The answer is so simple that you do not believe, it is the WHY (why). My solution is to ask yourself WHY, regardless of my anger, fear, jealousy, hate, I ask myself WHY?
Doctor: The next question is: Why do you think it is correct? Each question you have to ask yourself why, I like it, why do you like? I do not like it, why do not you like? WHY ...... With depth, we will be able to throw away all the four garbage when asked WHY, first we'll get some answers superficial surface, with a step of questioning, I found myself the reason is that, under the A question is: Why do I have these things? It should not belong to me, why should I keep it? For example, I went to the interview, I borrowed a piece of clothing with friends, interview finished, I gave the clothes a friend. Similarly, four thought it is not belong to me, I still have to take them out, the easiest way is to constantly ask yourself WHY. When you keep asking yourself WHY, when one day you will find that four kinds of things at the moment, there is no me angry, because he was doing something wrong and causing injury to me, the I is the true self it? Or the community to create that self EGO? If I am aware of this, he said, the words can hurt me harm my reason? If I do not compare then, EGO that society will be weakened. Understand?
Doctor: When I look at the mountain from a distance, I think the mountain unattainable, but when I really started to climb, I could not find it difficult to get up,
Participants: Compared with the past, we appreciate the more enjoyable, whether we are happy explain it? (The phrase is unclear, not sure)
Doctor: We must understand the difference between comfort and happiness, you have probably comfortable, good salary, house, car, etc., but can become comfortable and happy?
Doctor: You say you can, for example, I have everything, if I lost someone, I will not be happy, so I have all the comforts to make me change the unhappy happy? I lost someone that they can make up for the pain of it?
Doctor: My view is that although the economic, technological and educational development, and we seldom happy in their personal lives, we are afraid of each relationship, even a long deep contacts friends, parted ways due to trivial; married for 20 years couple divorced because of little things; I worked for the company for 20 years, left the company because of the little things; these are happy? This is not happy, in every relationship, we are in a state of suffering, we are afraid of losing everything, we should be as happy, fun and work, but I have seen is that we work for fear. I want to continue to find a good job, because I was afraid of losing everything. Fear of losing everything to make your job more. You agree?
Student: I feel happy to meet the prevailing conditions, happiness and suffering will change over time, if you can not adapt to this change, can not change their own words, in which you can topsy-turvy. Length of life does not mean a happy, long life have a happy chance, and not necessarily on a certain Dr. Happy: This is when we start to talk about it, we want a continuous, uninterrupted, free from constraints of happiness, happiness is a state of happiness is not subject to any environmental interference. When we try to remember the happy, but almost hard to remember, because happiness is too short, come and go, but the pain is very long. Even the four did not feel that society can not develop ideas, but happiness is beyond the development, and the development of independent now back WHY, it is our first step towards a spiritual journey of our surface. Spirituality is personal, each a different understanding of them may be right, because spirituality is very personal, it is impossible from any group, religion, schools, etc. to obtain, spirituality is very personal, Independent journey, that is, why ask WHY the answer is different for each person concerned. Then further ask, then, will get different answers, with the constant questioning, one day you get there, you really will get my answer. Like you sitting in a dark house, eyes closed, you see is darkness. Then you open your eyes, still dark. But open your eyes you realize that outside is black, then you start looking for the switch, you walk around looking, you find the switch for the moment, the whole darkness disappears. These issues are still in the dark as to open their eyes, further problem is trying to find the switch, and constantly asked to go, there is a problem is that the switch, the so-called dark disappeared participants: sometimes feel their voices, and sometimes felt others sound, and finally realized that the feeling of unity with others a PhD: Yes, this is the basic purpose of this exercise. According to our own breathing rhythm to do this particular pronunciation exercises, then automatically we told our subtle energy belong to groups, and the unity of the entire human race. I do not tell you before, because of fear of you think this direction, I want you to get yourself these experiences, get their own way of thinking and look at the issue. If a teacher tells you how to start what is bad. My purpose here is not to give you the answer, but to give you problems, so you can find the answers yourself. I did not answer, I'm still looking for their own answers.click to read more
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